Not a bs..but still devastated!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2008
Not a bs..but still devastated!
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 1:59am

I would like to vent my recent experiences with my bf of three years who was supposed to be broken up with his xgf for eight years (It was a five year relationship that supposedly ended a few weeks before I began dating him.)

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-29-2008
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 4:15am

Oh My God, this is horrible! I suggest that you stop focussing on the negative and THANK GOD you found this out before you married him! You must have someone looking over you. I would consider yourself lucky!

Having said that, if I were you I would confront him and then RUN and never look back. He is obviously some kind of sociopath.

Don't worry about it, you will feel badly for a while but I guarantee you , you will trust again!

You asked why men do this? Not all men do this, you may not believe it now, but there are honest men out there, you just happened to stumble upon a rotten one. Its ok, we all do at one time or another, you just have to know to run in the opposite direction from them.

Please dont let this experience dictate your future. Dont punish the next man for this jerks mistakes.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 7:06am
This man has revealed his true character to you - a sneak and a liar, whatever his motivation.