Not sure if rebuilding is worth it

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-03-2004
Not sure if rebuilding is worth it
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Mon, 05-18-2009 - 7:14pm

Hello all,


I've been on this board on and off for over a year and I just need to vent and really get some advice on how I should proceed.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Mon, 05-18-2009 - 7:28pm
So he cheated and has a baby with another woman.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Tue, 05-19-2009 - 12:31am
So he has a baby with one woman he had an affair with and then you find out he is regularly in contact with this co-worker he gave a ride to. I think you should cut your losses now before you end up PG too. You will always have to deal with the baby momma calling him and wanting him to be there when the baby gets sick or anything else that comes up with the baby. On top of that getting cozy with this co-worker. I don't see how you could possibly trust him anymore.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2008
Tue, 05-19-2009 - 2:06am

No, you are not overreacting at all. Have you been to a lawyer yet? It seems your H is one of those that will only come out of the fog if he is served divorce papers.


I have a feeling you are going to feel much much better when you take a serious stand and he sees that you are done.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-03-2004
Tue, 05-19-2009 - 9:43am

Thanks bjean,


I've been thinking the same thing.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2009
Tue, 05-19-2009 - 12:18pm

"So now I just feel like he is really not trying to rebuild"


You're right.

"If something cannot go on forever, it will stop."  Herb Stein