Oh great now we get porn too????

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Registered: 02-22-1999
Oh great now we get porn too????
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Thu, 02-09-2012 - 11:45pm

OK fast update.

H had EA in 2008, A at the end of 2010.

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Registered: 02-15-2008
Fri, 02-10-2012 - 10:14am

Elmosmom, please vent here whenever you like!

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Registered: 02-22-1999
Fri, 02-10-2012 - 7:51pm

Thanks Ollie.

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Registered: 09-09-2008
Sat, 02-11-2012 - 3:11pm

I think it's a great idea for him to be in IC at this point.

 

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Registered: 02-22-1999
Mon, 02-13-2012 - 8:38pm

Yes, I am seriously upset over the no therapist.

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Registered: 02-15-2008
Tue, 02-21-2012 - 8:17am

Hi elmosmom,

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Registered: 02-22-1999
Tue, 02-21-2012 - 9:44pm

Thanks for checking in on me.

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Registered: 09-09-2008
Tue, 02-21-2012 - 10:31pm

It has sounded like you see his porn as an extension of his other bad behaviors, and I can understand that.

 

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Registered: 02-15-2008
Wed, 02-22-2012 - 7:05am

Thanks for the compliment elmosmom!

Wow, your life sounds busy!

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Registered: 02-23-2012
Thu, 02-23-2012 - 12:25pm
I know how you feel. As far as I know my H hasn't done anything physical with another woman, but he is so good about hiding stuff that it literally makes me sick to my stomach. I try not to even think about it. However, he has a weird pantyhose/shoe fetish and he's constantly looking at pictures of women online. My biggest problem is there are pics where the women barely look legal and it scares me. Now I have to wonder if he's some sort of pedophile?

Anyway, I've come to the conclusion that men are scum and I've been at the point for years where I want to leave him. Unfortunately I also have 3 kids and I'm financially dependent on him and 3000 miles away from any family :(

{{{HUGS}}} to you. I know how you're feeling!
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Registered: 02-22-1999
Thu, 02-23-2012 - 7:05pm

Time this weekend. You're funny Ollie.

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