one more little thang...

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Registered: 10-14-2011
one more little thang...
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Sun, 12-25-2011 - 6:57pm

One more issue is that, he has saved all his love letters, songs, email and photos he sent her from 3 months ago. I mean if something were truly over, wouldn't you want to press the delete button? Especially if it wreaked so much havoc in your life, almost caused you a divorce, and emotionally killed your wife of 20 years? Wouldn't you want to get rid of it? And, going back to the same chat room she "lives in"... and posting love songs... That "weren't to her, of course... My life is $hit..

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Registered: 10-14-2011
Sun, 12-25-2011 - 9:41pm
hehehehe Thanks... I broke his phone and threw if off the back porch into a thousand pieces... Now the computer!!!! Yeah... awesome Idea..... :))))
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Registered: 12-13-2011
Sun, 12-25-2011 - 8:29pm
Heck no!!! I am crazy enough knowing this happened and has been over for months. I'd kill him if he kept slapping me in the face with it! It frightens me to think about what would happen. That's a lot of nerve. I know I do not have as many years invested, but that is flat out disrespectful!!! It's one thing to do this when your clueless (which is in no way acceptable or okay), but it's another to get caught and continue to carry on in ways that make you uncomfortable and insecure. Honestly if my husband wasn't crawling on the floor like the dog he is, his bags would have been packed that day! Better yet, my bags and the kids bags would have been packed and he'd get the bill, just so he'd really know I would leave. I commend you on your strength. I hope you know how valuable and important you are as an individual. We are worth far more than the disrespect, lies, betrayal, and everything else that comes with this! Break his computer! ;)