The OW killed herself after my husband ended it
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|Thu, 01-09-2014 - 1:16am|
I have followed this board for a while now and never got the courage to post. My husband of 22yrs had an affair on and off over 7yrs with a coworker. I found out On my own. I know this sounds dumb of me but I love him. We had a good marriage. I know he loves me and is full of guilt he said he tried so many times to end it but she'd threaten me, herself,his job on and on....he came clean this New Year's Eve to me. He said it was a power thing with them. It was sick and full of fighting and drama. He couldn't break free. we together came up with a plan for him to end it with my help. She stalked me. He said she was obsessed with knowing about me. She called my home New Years Eve drunk. Telling me he didn't love me. Blah blah blah....I told her how wrong she was and called her choice things as you can image. We than blocked her number from our phones and Facebook etc.... When dh was going to work Thursday the plan was to call me if she showed up at his building and office. He was worried she would show up at our home and if she did I was to call the police. He called me shortly after he arrived at work to find out she was at a party made calls and left after yelling at someone on the phone (that would be me) . She drove to her home and she had killed herself. Her brother found her New Years day. My husband is full of guilt and I want this over. I grieve for my marriage. Has this ever happened to anyone else......will I get my life back. Could my marriage be ok even good again? I need advise on how to move forward. I know it's only been days but I need someone to leave hope.