Remorse V. Guilt
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|Wed, 04-08-2009 - 12:55pm|
I called in sick to work today- there's no way I could function there- and I've spent the majority of the day writing a letter to my H. I'm not going to give him the letter but it is helping me put some of my feelings into words. I'll take little exerpts and tell him those.
I was trying to understand something: I feel like my H knows he hurt me and he's sorry but he hasn't shown me that he really wants to change. He says he'll never do it again. But I just have this feeling that he's more concerned with himself.
Anyway, I came across the 180 list in the posts here. I clicked on a link in that post and did a little searching. I found this article that describes exactly what my H is doing right now. He's feeling guilty and has little or no remorse.
(I hope I'm not breaking a board rule by posting this here too- if so please let me know and I'll take it down.)