REVENGE AND ANGER

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-24-2008
REVENGE AND ANGER
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Wed, 01-14-2009 - 4:57pm

Wow, there's been a lot of anger and talk of revenge on this board recently.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-11-2008
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 6:05pm

Raging Bull--I partially agree with you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-24-2008
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 6:37pm
And one more thing...watch your language.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-11-2008
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 8:51pm

Who the h3LL said they wanted to control their spouse??? What kind of encouragement is this? I agree with Raging. There is no way a BS would even think about writing a post like this. I agree that only the last part is worthwhile for someone who has been hurt to the degree that we have. I don't know what kind of counselor you went to, but revenge is a natural response to betrayal. You really don't need to post things like this on this board because people are in too much pain and already feel as if they are going crazy after D-Day and they don't need this kind of garbage in their minds.


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-24-2008
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 9:36pm

Hey, it's just something I read and wanted to share.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-13-2009
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 9:40pm

Thank You....


The only reason that I have not beat the OM is that I have amazing daughters. My oldest found out today and she cried on the phone with me. These are are MY GIRLS. My daughters are smart, funny and honest. Right now I have to show them a good example and it goes AGAINST everything I feel.


My W is now out of the house and with her sister. Her brothers came by to get the rest of her stuff and I told them to come back Saturday as I no longer want "our" (what a joke) bedroom set in the house. W's youngest brother almost passed out when I told him.


iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2003
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 9:48pm

Hi everyone,


Two quick reminders, first the Rules of Play

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-13-2009
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 9:55pm

Angela...I am sorry. I have been a raging lunatic for awhile. I feel like my W cut my heart out....


I'm sorry..I will try to self sensor..


I just want to crawl into a hole...


Raging...

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2003
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 10:03pm

Hi raging_bull09


I'm very, very sorry that you're hurting.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-24-2008
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 10:08pm

Listen brother.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-13-2009
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 10:10pm

That's one of my rpoblems right now..Everyone has found out and has an opinion. My sisters want my W's scalp and the OM's cajones (can I say that??). My parents want me to try to exhale for the sake of my kids.


My priest is telling me that he can do marriage counseling? Huh? We are Roman Catholic and the last time I checked priests did not marry.


Her family thinks we need Therapy for each of us and then marriage counseling...


I just want this to be a bad dream.....

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