Says he is sorry

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Registered: 06-01-2009
Says he is sorry
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Tue, 06-02-2009 - 8:34am
My husband is being extra nice this week...Everyday he asks if everything is okay... And than he keeps jokingly saying "i am afraid you hate me".... Which I reply no I love you very much.... And than at nite I have trouble sleeping and he knows it, he knows I get out of bed and stay up for awhile. He asked me this morning if I left the bed last nite and i told him yes.. He said he was sorry I was sad and did not like seeing me sad... We will see how sorry he is.. Is he sorry enough to stop instant messaging his exfiance every day? We will see..
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Registered: 02-04-2009
In reply to: nda3
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 9:54am

That's it, stay focused on the real issue and not that he's "sad" and "sorry".

"If something cannot go on forever, it will stop."  Herb Stein

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Registered: 02-15-2008
In reply to: nda3
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 10:11am

Hi nda3,

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Registered: 09-09-2008
In reply to: nda3
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 4:42pm
I must be missing something.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2009
In reply to: nda3
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 4:58pm

Hi!!


We have two issues going on... The one issue is I found the sexually explicit text between him and mother of his goddaughter.. The second issue is that he has been

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2009
In reply to: nda3
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 5:44pm
My keyboard froze up on me during the last post... Anyway we are dealing with several issues all of them related to inappropiate behavior on his part... He had the sexually explict text with sarah (he has agreed to stop all contact with sarah). Than he has been instant messaging a girl he was engaged to about 16 years
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Registered: 09-09-2008
In reply to: nda3
Wed, 06-03-2009 - 12:05am

There's really nothing wrong with one or two e-mails, etc. with an old girlfriend just to say hi, how ya doin', and then ending it with "nice to hear from you, best wishes".