she still here and his a liar

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Registered: 01-16-2009
she still here and his a liar
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 12:18pm
this man has dragged me to hell and deeper and i keep believing his lies. he swears he'll stop lying and cheating but he hasn't.his phone rang and he wouldn't pick up but listened to the voice mail and said it was work,then as we were going to bed his text buzzer started going off and he says it media-net.i looked up his phone and it was he will come home from work excepting dinner on the table and me kissing him at the door. he writes in
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Registered: 04-16-2008
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 2:09pm
Probably because easer to stay in the known than risk the unknown. That's usually what it is unless it's for financial reasons or the kids. If he is talking negatively about you behind your back he is disrespecting you and it's wrong.

Edited 2/3/2009 2:12 pm ET by peaceyma
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Registered: 08-07-2007
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 2:56pm

You might benefit from visiting the codependency board.

I would also like to know if you have abandonment issues from your past. Sometimes we cling to unhealthy relationships when we know that we should not if there is fear of being abandoned.

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Registered: 12-12-2008
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 5:16pm
you can start by not cooking for him anymore. Turn away when he kisses you

Edited 2/3/2009 5:17 pm ET by nygirl8241