She's a predator!
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|Tue, 03-31-2009 - 3:58pm|
As some of you may know (from my previous posts) I've had some suspicions about my H. I checked his phone for text messages and found out he's been texting with this girl at work. (Some just saying "Good morning" and some were flirty.)
I tried to do the "180 List" and it seems to be working. He's focusing almost all of his attention on me and our marriage. We didn't really have any problems before. We were attentive and intimate with each other. But he's taken it up a notch since the 180.
Anyway, I continued to check his phone. On Friday I found MANY messages from her that went unanswered.
She started early in the workday asking if he wanted to go out that night or next weekend.
No response from him.
Another message from her- "Hey, did you get my message earlier? Want to go out later?"
Yet ANOTHER message from her. She really wants him to come along with "them" tonight. (I guess they're going out as a group.)
Now... the thought crossed my mind that he could have gone to her and answered in person (She works in a different department on another floor.) But the continued questions from her make it seem as if she didn't get a response (Nor did I see any in his "Sent" folder.)
I would prefer that he say, "NO! I'm married." But at least he didn't say yes or even acknowledge her advances.
This woman is a predator- he's clearly not interested when he doesn't answer 3 of your texts. At least he's not interested