should i let go

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2009
should i let go
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Sat, 06-06-2009 - 11:07am

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
In reply to: butletgo
Sat, 06-06-2009 - 12:47pm
He is making excuses in order to continue his affair. He has no legal obligation to her or her kids. I would give him an ultimatum. Either he ends this right now of your thru. What if he gets her pregnant or she gets pregnant on purpose to trap him? And then decides he has to be with her out of obligation. You should not put up with his behavior.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-09-2008
In reply to: butletgo
Sat, 06-06-2009 - 2:24pm

I am going to very calmly address this post. Yes I am going to remail calm even though the emotional well being of no less than NINE children are at stake.


So you say that this has been going on for a YEAR and you are not putting your foot down and saying no more. YOU have to get tough! What would your children think if they new you were allowing a man yo do this too you? WOuld you want your daughters to accept this kind of treatment? You are teaching them that it's ok for a man to to do this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2008
In reply to: butletgo
Sat, 06-06-2009 - 3:44pm

I feel your pain and totally understand your confusion.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2009
In reply to: butletgo
Sat, 06-06-2009 - 8:13pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2008
In reply to: butletgo
Sat, 06-06-2009 - 8:57pm

I'm going to throw something out there --- it's

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2008
In reply to: butletgo
Sat, 06-06-2009 - 9:42pm

There are no cookie cutter answers, each of us has to take this journey based on what our gut tells us we need to do.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2009
In reply to: butletgo
Sun, 06-07-2009 - 12:35am

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2009
In reply to: butletgo
Sun, 06-07-2009 - 12:48am

Thanks for the reply.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-26-2003
In reply to: butletgo
Sun, 06-07-2009 - 5:31am

I've suffered a similar situation as you are going through. But from the standpoint of the child.


When I was 15, My father assisted a woman from Romania, who somehow came to this country (US,

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2009
In reply to: butletgo
Sun, 06-07-2009 - 12:28pm

My children ages 4 to 14 have no idea anything inappropriate is going on.

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