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|Fri, 07-19-2013 - 1:56am|
I've been in a relationship for about 2 years off and on again with my girlfriend. She's a great girl or at least I thought. Here's the gist.
About a year ago ethereal was a lot of issues going on in my personal life which was too much for her to deal with at that time. She started talking to a friend of her brothers and I ended up ending things with me to date him. We still would date but not exclusive and this point I didnt know about the other guy. We were watching a movie and stumbled upon some pictures of them out of town when she had told me she was with her dad. I ended things.
After a while we reconnected (6-8 months) and she had ended things with that guy and briefly dated someone else in the mean time. That was about 10 months ago. We have been together since and even moved in together since we both needed places to stay.
Every so often I snoop through her phone to make sure things are going on like they did in the past. We are going away for the weekend with some friends in the morning and I found a message when I checked today. "I miss you too." From the guy that she dated before me.
I confronted her about this and instead of offer a believeable story she tells me she's as confused as I am since she never sent him a message prior, but can't pthe that since she deleted it. And then instead of being on the defensive, she gets highly upset with me for not trusting her and snooping.
So I'm wondering am I right to be upset? am I wrong and that's the bigger picture than the message? Oh. And when confronted I asked if anyone messages her and she denied it. Even when I asked about the guy by name.