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|Wed, 01-01-2014 - 1:52pm|
I am going back and forth with this whole thing. One day I hate him, one day I want to work it out, one day I want to move on asap. BF doesn’t know I know yet. More investigation I found his sis set the whole thing up for him. She is currently on this site whining to all the men about how lonely she is and needs a man with dignity???
Do I confront him with the evidence and leave? (I know when I used to confront XH to no avail…he just got more and sneakier…The whole time I thought we were rebuilding he was with her. He NEVER ENDED WITH HER….
Do I Just leave with no explanation? Leave with an explanation????Start a big fight with him over it before leaving???
I am so confused right now…As you know he listed he is single and looking for “friends” and has been chatting with about three women, mostly about stupid stuff, weather and vacations…The website is “Meetme” and is like a facebook (The old yearbook???) in it is a social networking site but you can date on it if you wish…One male freind said what he is doing is harmless as he is not talking to these women about sex; however he is checking out profiles of young skimpy clothed women and adding others as freinds.
Anyway I am in the process of moving things. His stuff is packed and my stuff is gone out of his house. I have family pics of his and awards and such that I need to take down and bring to his house.
I know in the past I was given a 180 list for my XH. Is it worth doing with BF? I would hate to give up all we have..I know I sound really stupid…
I guess I am hoping BF will come crawling back asking for forgiveness like XH did. In my fantasy world he would delete the profile, promise to never do it again. We go to counseling and I would have full access to that f’ing Iphone. But do I really want that? In reality am I just prolonging the inevitable?
Basically I think that if we take a break with the 180 list my answers will come to me in a more logical way..I think…I really hate that this is happening over the holidays, where someone else stated that it is impossible to get anyone on the phone much less a therapist…
How should I end or not end it????? WWYD????