So Disgusted :(
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|Thu, 03-06-2014 - 10:49am|
As you all know I left XBF of 4 years two months ago because he was on dating websites and lying about it (This month would have been our 4 years together)
I just realized that he friend requested many of my Facebook friends; a lot who really do not know the situation. He went from 10 Facebook friends to 151 in the two months we have been apart; now friends with my friends.
He posted that he is “content” and back with his XGF, the one who cheated on him incessantly and drank heavily. (Really???? They broke up in 2007!!!!!!!!!!!) I posted several posts about her on the rebuilding board (Now gone? Or is it just my computer is screwed up?) I always had a weird feeling that he always had feelings for her.
I feel like I dumped a tub of lard into the pit of my stomach. I am so disgusted. I feel like our relationship was nothing but a lie…The whole four years was he pining for some drunken wh**e????
Anyhow, if you remember in a previous post I stated that his brother broke off the engagement with his fiancé of six years on new year’s eve…He just posted on Jan 22 that he is engaged to someone else…GWT was right, about how cheating runs in families…As you know their sister cheated on her husband with her new (Now separated) hubby and she helped XBF set up his dating website account.
Speaking of his sister, he posted some stupid post about her on my friends' timeline? (not familiar with the wording) which showed up on my page, stating (and I quote) “Stephanie is a beautiful human being. She is my sister and I love her.” Everyone than “liked” the post and some even commented on how much of a wonderful loving man he is... GAG!!!!!
Since I found this out I have set my account to private but I am not really familiar with Facebook and do not know if I did all I can to be super private. I am almost at the point of deleting my profile but love the fact that I am in contact with my long lost relatives and friends.
I tried to block him last night…His profile is, let’s say: “Jim Christian Smith” and when I tried to block him it came up “Jim Christian” so I could not figure out why and did not go thru with it…If anyone can help me with this Facebook thing I would really appreciate it…If I am able to block him would he get a message saying I blocked him? I just want to be left alone and do not want to see him or hear from him…
On another note, I went to the bank last week to close our joint account. What used to be $1800 was now a balance of $200 thanks to him and his f’ing atm card. They would not let me take my name off, so I had to close the account. I wanted nothing to do with him and no drama so I told them to send the remaining balance to one of his checking accounts (We had the joint account at his bank)..
Well, my rant is over. I am kind of moody today so bear with me…
God bless, Christy