so hurt..

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Registered: 05-19-2010
so hurt..
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Fri, 07-02-2010 - 1:06pm
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-24-2007
In reply to: mommybesima
Fri, 07-02-2010 - 6:40pm

I am sorry you find yourself here and I know your pain all too well.


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Registered: 01-16-2008
In reply to: mommybesima
Fri, 07-02-2010 - 7:02pm

Hi Mommy
"Is it possible that he just made a mistake because he was stupid and not really know why? I guess i find it hard to believe that it was a mistake when it went on for a month."
No it was a series of choices, a mind set that thought this was ok to do in the first place coming from a selfish place.

It is possible to so stupid and selfish as to just do whatever YOU want no matter who gets hurt - it is passive aggressive, mean.
I wanted to know what went on, if he had tried to hide the details I do not think I could have managed being around him.
Peace & Strength to you

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2010
In reply to: mommybesima
Sat, 07-03-2010 - 10:54am
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Registered: 09-09-2008
In reply to: mommybesima
Sat, 07-03-2010 - 3:24pm

Every single time I hear one of them tries to downplay it all by calling it "a mistake", makes me want to scream.

 

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Registered: 08-24-2007
In reply to: mommybesima
Sun, 07-04-2010 - 12:18pm

Wow!