I am sorry you find yourself here and I know your pain all too well.
Hi Mommy"Is it possible that he just made a mistake because he was stupid and not really know why? I guess i find it hard to believe that it was a mistake when it went on for a month."No it was a series of choices, a mind set that thought this was ok to do in the first place coming from a selfish place.
It is possible to so stupid and selfish as to just do whatever YOU want no matter who gets hurt - it is passive aggressive, mean. I wanted to know what went on, if he had tried to hide the details I do not think I could have managed being around him.Peace & Strength to you
Every single time I hear one of them tries to downplay it all by calling it "a mistake", makes me want to scream.