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|Thu, 04-16-2009 - 3:35pm|
This is one wild ride!
Lately my H has been making passing comments about my having a date with another man. He's been basically giving me permission to have an A. (Only emotional as far as I can tell.) He says that if I would like to go out on a date with a guy or something that he would be okay with that.
He's not saying it as a defense for himself. He's not waiting for me to say, "You too." It's really like he's giving me permission to have a revenge affair or something. It's weird! He must think it will even the score.
He doesn't want an open marriage (Is that what it's called when you aren't sexually exclusive with your spouse- and it's agreed upon?) He really just wants to even the score, I think.
I've told him that I don't want to go out with other men. And that I made a commitment to him. I told him that I am not okay with him going out on dates and that he does not have permission, nor is it acceptable on ANY level.
I don't even know what to think. Am I being manipulated, does he honestly think it will make