sooooo sad :(

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Registered: 04-18-2003
sooooo sad :(
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Sat, 01-23-2010 - 5:54pm

I have been married for 10 1/2 years, together for 12 1/2. I have never suspected anything going on, never looked through his desk or wallet, screened his calls, etc...

Sheri Ann

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Registered: 07-02-2008
In reply to: sheriann8
Sat, 01-23-2010 - 6:39pm

Glad you found us here as you will find lots of support. Yes, these WS are very good at "pretending" to be in a marriage arent they? My h pretended for 3 years because he enjoyed having two woman in his life and I dont think he ever planned to give that up as long as he was getting away with it.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: sheriann8
Sun, 01-24-2010 - 11:02am

You are right - you can't make your H want to rebuild - although I would say he definitely needs counseling/therapy to find out why he has made such poor decisions.