sooooo sad :(
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sooooo sad :(
| Sat, 01-23-2010 - 5:54pm |
I have been married for 10 1/2 years, together for 12 1/2. I have never suspected anything going on, never looked through his desk or wallet, screened his calls, etc...
Glad you found us here as you will find lots of support. Yes, these WS are very good at "pretending" to be in a marriage arent they? My h pretended for 3 years because he enjoyed having two woman in his life and I dont think he ever planned to give that up as long as he was getting away with it.
You are right - you can't make your H want to rebuild - although I would say he definitely needs counseling/therapy to find out why he has made such poor decisions.