Stuck with holding the bag
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|Wed, 04-15-2009 - 2:18pm|
New to the board and since reading the messages posted it has helped me put some things in perspective. I am going on week 3 since my husband of 18 years informed me he wanted a divorce and fell in love with someone else. We have a 17 year old son and my son from a previous marriage who is 26 both want to hang him by his b-lls. He moved out 2 weeks ago and moved in with the OW he also said he lost his job.
We are in the middle of a bankruptcy and there is no way I could make the mortgage payments on my income. With the housing market we owe more than it is worth there is no assets. Should I be looking for a place to live how does this work? I talked to an attorney and she needed all our financial info including our bank statements. Since we have joint accounts I opened his to see the activity and found he was dating this person longer than he admitted which he also stated they have not had sex, but on the statement it has him renting a motel room 3 times in March alone! He also overdrafted his acct purchasing a value meal at Burger Kg.
Any words of wisdom would be appreciated.