Surprise....

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Registered: 01-13-2009
Surprise....
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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 7:05am

I opened the mail last night and I got my W's Marriott Frequent Stayer card number. It seems that she has been a regular at the hotel 3 miles from our house. Plus I got the bill for the BMW that was leasing. I have never seen this BMW!!!!!!!


Who in God's name did I marry?


Jack...

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Registered: 09-13-2008
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 7:49am

I know how you feel.


After the Q&A session last week about my wife's texting habits, I asked her repeatedly "Who are you? You are not my wife. My wife isn't a compulsive lyer and cheater. Who are you?"

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Registered: 07-13-2008
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 9:16am

My H did not reaize we were already Marriott frequent flyers due to his cont. ed conferences--so the dumb dumb went there with her and was suprized that I got a notification re our "frequent " stays and an offer for an upgrade in room at our next visit.....what a moron. Needless to say the thought of the Marriott is still sickening to me.

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Registered: 08-07-2007
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 9:23am

Good Grief!!!


Your wife sure did cheat in style didn't she. Marriot .... BMW ..... WOW!!!

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Registered: 01-26-2009
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 10:39am

Oh my Lord!!! I can't even imagine how you are supposed to approach your wife with all that you have dicovered. But I know first hand how you feel. It's like...I fell in love with one person but then this other person took over somehow. It sucks-It hurts-It's not fair!!!


(sigh) I'm like...what the heck are people thinking??? I'm sorry that you had all of this dropped on you. ((HUGZ))

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lone_lee

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Registered: 11-13-2006
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 3:18pm

Do you have any idea where the car is now or who has been driving it? This is bizarre, and I am so sorry you are having to deal with all this. Makes my H's A and the aftermath seem tame in comparison, even though it devastated me at the time.


I hope you are able to sort this out and find some answers, because right now, it seems all you get are more questions.


Best wishes for some peace in your life.


MLB

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 3:31pm

I think it goes even beyond "who is she?", too.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2007
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 3:46pm

I agree completely with myradorn.


An unseen car....This is some weird stuff. Maybe this is what the drug money paid for. But why was it needed? Strange.


FiveDiamondWife

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 4:55pm

Put it all in the Divorce File, honey.


SO sorry!


iVillage Member
Registered: 01-13-2009
Wed, 01-28-2009 - 5:30am

I still have no idea where the car is but I called the dealership and told them that the lease was cancelled, where upon the Sales Mgr told me I could not cancel the lease. I laughed at him and told him Good Luck finding the

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Registered: 01-13-2009
Wed, 01-28-2009 - 5:34am

I sit in my office at times and look at our wedding picture and ask myself..was any of it real?


I feel like I am waiting for the next shoe to drop...


My life is like a bad made for TV movie....


Jack....

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