texting his ex & lying ... How can I trust him?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2011
texting his ex & lying ... How can I trust him?
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Wed, 08-03-2011 - 11:59am

I'm new on here and have been reading all the articles and have def decided to join & tell my story to get some advice. My H signed up for facebook back in Dec and got connected with an ex gf.. He hid the fact they he was calling her while I was at work and texting her all day from his phone and also emailing here and there. I found some texts and when I confronted him he lied... So I showed him the texts and he finally admitted he was doing it..Said he'd stop ..2 months later we are on a weekend get away and I find texts again from him to her ...I confront him and he lies again when I ask if he's been in contact with her....So again I show him the texts I found and he admits it (Hello!!! its in black & white in front of him for him to admit it and he's def busted again.... grrr!!!)

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2010

Dragonflyyy -

I am sorry for what you are going through.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2008

(((hugs Dragonflyyy)))

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2011

Thanks so much for giving me advice.. I needed to hear an unbiased opinion. Deep down I feel I do need to leave ...its extremely scary to leave everything I've ever known but i really think its something I need to do

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2011

Hugsss .. your right he has continued to keep in touch with her and hes lied so many times about it...i just cant trust anything he says to me now..makes me wonder what else has he lied to me about... thanks so much for your support

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2008

I felt the same way you do with my ex h.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-07-2004

*HUGS* dragonflyyy

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2011

Dear Dragonflyyy,

Only you can decide what you should do.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2011

Hope,

I think you gave Dragonflyyy much better advice than I did.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2011

Ollie,

Are you married now, or seeing anyone?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2011

Good luck!

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