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|Sun, 02-15-2009 - 1:35am|
I have been with the same guy for 15 years. We have been married for 3 years and have a family together. I love him but I refused to be a victim of his lies and deception. Since our marriage he has cheated twice and posted nude pictures of himself on the internet muliple times. He constantly tells me that he loves me, that he's sorry and that it will never happen again but of course I don't believe him. I honestly wish there was some way that he could become a better man, the kind of man I deserve and need in my life but I don't see that happening. I know that I could never trust him the way I did before he decided to cheat. He has stated that he would like for us to go to counseling but I don't want to. I feel like I given this man so much and can't stand the thought of having to put forth more effort to try to work things out when he was the only one in the wrong. So my question to you is: Should I give up and move on or get counseling and salvage our 10 year+ relationship?