Truth or nutcase?Emails from the OW

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-09-2008
Truth or nutcase?Emails from the OW
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Sun, 05-31-2009 - 2:28pm

OMGthis woman is getting to the p--- off point with me. This is the email that I found in my box the AM. Since my H flatly denies having sex with the skank. Who is telling the truth?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Sun, 05-31-2009 - 4:27pm
Oh, that's frustrating, because we are never sure of anything again.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-22-2009
Sun, 05-31-2009 - 4:47pm

I'd say (even if she happens to be telling the truth) she's still a nutcase!


And I also have to say... she sent you this email... who is harrassing who here?


I tend to think that OW is dishonest and desperate in the first place. And this email seems to be pulling at threads and trying to push buttons. If I were you I'd go to my H and make the bulk of the conversation about "Why does this woman think it's appropriate to email ME?" I didn't invite her in my life and she has NO right to be sending me messages. Then maybe sneak in a little conversation about the physical contact they may or may not have had. Then he can't say, "See you were obsessing about her." Because the majority of the conversation will be about your feelings and just plain respecting you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-27-2009
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 6:21am

Did she respond to an email you sent?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 7:50am
Maybe it's some of both.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2009
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 9:43am
Either she's a nutcase who's lying or she's a nutcase telling the truth.

"If something cannot go on forever, it will stop."  Herb Stein

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2009
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 10:38am

Unfortunately, in these situations, it's hard to believe that either of them are telling you the complete truth.

 


iVillage Member
Registered: 06-19-2008
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 3:34pm

She seemed to feel pretty free to tell you that your H has been driven to the brink with your obsessing.......how would she know that?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2009
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 10:23am

She seemed to feel pretty free to tell you that your H has been driven to the brink with your obsessing.......how would she know that?


Chances are she doesn't know anything.

 


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-09-2008
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 1:01pm

Well her letter to me on April 27 talked about my harassing her through Classmates.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-23-2009
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 3:56pm
ITA plus it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out 'obsessed' is a pretty common reaction.

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