Is tweeting cheating? Many say yes

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Is tweeting cheating? Many say yes
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Wed, 06-08-2011 - 9:10am

I would definitely be upset and heartbroken if my DH was sending pics or sexy tweets to another woman.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Wed, 06-08-2011 - 7:56pm

Tasha

chaika

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 9:00am

IMO, I don't think it's about control in a healthy relationship.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 3:25pm

IT can be both,

However,for myself any statement:"

"You'd be dead," she told him.

Would mean the end of the relationship right then right there.

I take threats very seriously.

chaika

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Registered: 01-16-2008
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 4:00pm

I would say it is about Respect

to end the relationship before it became hurtful would be the right thing to do

I would assume her threat was defesive talk to be translated as 'if you did this to me it would kill me inside'

disrepectful actions from those close to you can change you forever

if it is not a big deal or it is a big deal we usually seek out and communicate these things far before we marry - these are key qualities that we look for in our partner to disagree on them would mean the end of the relationship prior to "I do"

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 8:21pm

Yes if we humans were not besotted that is.

chaika

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Fri, 06-10-2011 - 8:08am

I think she meant that as tongue-in-cheek as just a way to tell him that she means business.

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Fri, 06-10-2011 - 8:18am

Respect -- great word!

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Sat, 06-11-2011 - 1:13am

That is why accurate communication is so important.

chaika

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Registered: 02-15-2008
Sat, 06-11-2011 - 7:08am

Hi Tasha,

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Mon, 06-13-2011 - 7:49am

Thanks for replying, Ollie -- I appreciate your feedback!

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