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|Wed, 08-27-2014 - 7:58pm|
About a month ago I found out that my husband is in love with his brothers sister and visa versa. They physically can't be together because his Parents wont allow him to live there (ABQ) were in (CA). He attempted to cut it off with her a week and a half ago but has faltered and emails and facetimes with her from time to time at work. Today he confessed that he spent a week with her and had intercourse numerous times. She was on her period at the time as well. He confessed today that she's pregnant. Keep in mind after this week long "fun" time, she was inimate with her husband and my husband and i were intimate as well. My husband had a vasectomy about a year ago. I've gotten my period since he's been back. She thinks its his but quite frankly my husband and i think differently because of the circumtsances (period, and vasectomy). If it is his brothers he's going to cut her off completely and commit to our marraige. But if its his, then he will leave our kids and i to be with her even it means his family will be broken and he will not have a family anymore. I keep telling him being with her is just immoral and selfish to be ok with losing your entire family over a girl.
if its not his, i'm willing to let him back into my life. But i'm scared of what that journey will look like, i know its a long hard process and I know i'm going to be going through all kinds of emotions. He did the most ultimate thing a spouse could do. How do i work through this? Can i get past this? Can our marraige get past this?