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|Fri, 01-07-2011 - 8:06am|
I need advice. I have a bit of a unique situation. We have three children, one bio, 4 and two nieces 12 and 17, my sisters children we adopted. My sister continues to have a great relationship with the kids we took them in when her marriage fell apart she asked me to keep them because we can give them the stability they needed, the kids have been a strain on me they have AD and ODD.
DH came home and asked for a divorce. It was a complete shock. I had just been given a scary health diagnosis and had planned while I was going through treatment I would send my nieces to stay with my sister until I recover. According to him he asked for a divorce because he thought I was abandoning these children and wanted to protect them.
I don't know how to understand this, he moved out without my niece and it devastated our bio child. He moved back into our spare bedroom and wants to do whatever it takes to make it right.