W is admitted to the Hospital

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Registered: 01-13-2009
W is admitted to the Hospital
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Thu, 01-15-2009 - 10:35pm

Evidently after her visit today my W had a breakdown. She started to cry uncontrollable and started to shake. My inlaws took her to the local hospital where they believe that she had a panic attack. During the triarge process she admitted doing drugs with the OM.


She has now been admitted to a Psych/Detox Hospital/Center for a minimum of 60 days.


If she leaves the hopsital before she will be charged with using illegal substances.


I need to go back and talk to my lawyer tomorrow.


When will this nightmare end...


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Registered: 09-05-2006
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 12:07am
my prayers are with the both of you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-16-2006
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 12:25am

Hi Jack,


I'm so sorry that you are experiencing what seems to be one catastrophe after another.

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Registered: 01-07-2009
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 8:02am

Edited 1/16/2009 8:06 am ET by georgiannasx


Edited 1/16/2009 10:48 am ET by georgiannasx
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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-13-2009
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 8:11am

Well, I will not being seeing her for a minimum of 30 days. My In-laws came over this am as I got the kids off to school.


My FIL told me that I needed to listen to our priest. "Hate the sin and love the sinner".

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-24-2008
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 8:18am

God works in mysterious ways.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-24-2008
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 8:19am
Let me ask you a question....how is this the least bit helpful to this man?
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Registered: 08-11-2008
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 8:56am

I am so sorry you are going through this. These cheating b*st*rds really reek havoc in thier lives as well as ours. I do want to tell you that I know you are angry, I have BTDT and I am still angry sometimes even six months after D-Day; but your W is still the mother of your children. She did a very bad, awful, hidious, stupid thing but at one time she carried your children and gave you the most precious gifts on earth. I don't mean to preach to you but I know that sometimes people just lose their minds and do really stupid, dumb, crazy things. I know, because my DH did by having an A with a foreigner in a foreign country while holding a top secret, very high position. His action over those eight months were insane. But, what I realized was that this man whom I have known for almost two decades fell from grace. He is not that horrible person who did those bad things to me and himself. He is a man who lost his way and allowed the evil within him to manifest. We all have that silent beast inside us which, if we are not careful and don't exercise some constraint will make us do some crazy, evil things. A long time ago before I met my H, I made a terrible, terrible mistake. I was at a very low point in my life. It wasn't an A, but it could have cost me my life, reputation and excellent career. I have never since then made a mistake to that degree but I understand how people can sometimes really F-up. I learned from that experience and vowed to live a decent and honest life and not ever intentionally hurt people. Your W could very well be on the verge of suicide. What if she takes her life? How would that make you feel? It wouldn't be your fault but if she did,

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-13-2009
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 9:37am

Thank you for the kind words. You are right. She is still the mother of my girls. I think that there is one thing that you are mistaken about. My W is only allowed 1 visitor for the first 30 days. It will be one of her parents. No one else (not me or the kids) is allowed to see her.


Its a long weekend and I need to figure out how I am going to keep the kids busy to keep their mind off of things. My littlest one, Sarah, really misses her mom. She was up until 10:30 last night before she finally fell asleep.


Jack

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-19-2008
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 9:45am
I guess I missed what your ILs did to deserve that treatment.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2003
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 10:31am

Hi everyone,


Please remember that when you post your personal story online you're going to get all types of responses, some you appreciate and some you don't.

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