What if your gut feeling is wrong...how?

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Registered: 08-18-2007
What if your gut feeling is wrong...how?
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Sun, 06-13-2010 - 3:37pm

Just like I said it. You've had this gut feeling and it's down deep. Even though there has been things that you think that might lead to your spouse having an affair. But, they keep saying no.....

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Registered: 07-11-2010
Sun, 07-11-2010 - 1:35pm
Your gut feeling is probably right.
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Registered: 08-18-2007
Wed, 07-14-2010 - 9:39am

When this all first started 2 or more years ago he did act like I was crazy and it's all in my head. Very defensive. And then when he cried like your wife did. It does make you wonder if they are crying for you or for themselves. I honestly think actions speak louder and by seeing how they have acted towards each other and her towards me........I'm just shaking my head here.......something happened. Getting caught screwing in the golf barn with his hat turned backwards is to much detail. That is from his mouth. Not anybody else. He heard it and told me. So....... Sometimes I think by thinking he's being honest with me and telling me about the rumors is his way of covering his little secrete. Try to detour me around it. That is my opinion. You know like this is what they are saying.......and in his head he is thinking.....if I tell you this......maybe she won't think it's is true.


SO....I'm saving money. Gonna boot him out as soon as I can. Even if something didn't happen.......I can't live like I am and to be honest......I don't love him anymore. I'm scared to death......but in the end I really think I will be better off.

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