What were you doing at the time?

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Registered: 08-24-2007
What were you doing at the time?
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Sun, 08-15-2010 - 10:36am

Do any of you ever wonder what you were doing at the time the cheating was going on?

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Registered: 01-28-2004
Sun, 08-29-2010 - 12:21pm

Here is another one: after I got the meds I was on bed-rest and had to lay on my left side the whole time and could only be up for 15 minutes at a time, three times a day. The meds made me shake uncontrolably so I couldn't hold a book to read so I mostly just watched TV. The Scott Pererson case was very much in the news at the time (you know, the guy who killed his pregnant wife Laci and was having an affair) and we lived in the Bay Area so the story was also local. I would watch the news reports of the trial prep or whatever it was that was going on and I would be thinking about this guy cheating on his pregnant wife and feel...and all the while my husband was cheating on me.

I remember saying to husband "I really don't care if he is guilty or not of the murder. He cheated on his pregnant wife. If he goes to jail for the rest of his life for a cir e he didn't commit, it really doesn't matter. He is a piece of scum". It is sureal that I was saying that to a man who was cheating on me while I was pregnant.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Wed, 09-01-2010 - 3:56pm
I guess I SHOULD consider myself halfway lucky since it appears my DH never got physical with the two women in question.

 

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Registered: 04-27-2009
Wed, 09-01-2010 - 5:34pm

When H's first

katuk
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Registered: 03-28-2003
Fri, 09-03-2010 - 2:10am

One of the first times i began to suspect something was going on I had just driven 5hrs out to see him and was following him in my car as we where going to a park as I'd taken the dog with me.. any way i get a text from him..... I just came inside you again...


I was like WTF??? then the naive part of me is umm i wonder is

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