whats your opinion?

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Registered: 03-05-2011
whats your opinion?
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Sat, 03-05-2011 - 11:51pm

If a girlfriend from the past all of a sudden re appeared years later and

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Registered: 03-05-2011
Thu, 03-10-2011 - 8:58pm

She just seemed to know so many personal things about our sex life and my kids and would literally show up anywhere he was. He also never seemed to get riled up about it, I was more riled up than he was. I found this to be odd? The only suspicious things Ive ever felt were mostly in the bedroom. He would sometimes be very different in bed? Ya know when you are with someone so long and for them to be suddenly completely different makes you wonder.

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Wed, 03-09-2011 - 7:59am

I agree with the others -- it sounds like a bit of stalking to me.

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Registered: 04-16-2008
Sun, 03-06-2011 - 2:43pm
I agree with the others, either something is going on between them, or she is delusional/psychotic.. Do you have access to his email accounts/phone records etc. Those things will usually reveal a lot. Also how is it that he has her current phone no. to call her when you asked?
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Registered: 12-05-2010
Sun, 03-06-2011 - 8:55am
ratherbeme wrote:
Either it is an affair or being stalked. In either case, BAD NEWS. Put a end to it right now.

It could be an affair, but it also could be she is just a manipulative psycho stalker. What does your husband have to say about this?

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Registered: 04-23-2010
Sun, 03-06-2011 - 8:29am
Either it is an affair or being stalked. In either case, BAD NEWS. Put a end to it right now.

We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.