When is enough enough

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-26-2007
When is enough enough
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Sat, 04-04-2009 - 10:36am

I am just getting tired of it all ... I have been posting on here for several years, from the EA board to Cyber Cheating to everything in between.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-03-2009
Sat, 04-04-2009 - 2:03pm

I'm in slightly different territory, but I too, sometimes wish that I had never looked on FB and seen my H and his OW's dialogue.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2008
Sat, 04-04-2009 - 5:54pm

Hi, Sounds like you have been dealing with this kind of stuff for years and yes you have had enough for sure.


I don't know how many "chances" you have given him but did you state any dealbreakers in the past for what you would do if you found out about any further cheating? Did you put an exit plan in place?


You do not need to

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Sun, 04-05-2009 - 1:16am

So he's at it again?

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-09-2008
Sun, 04-05-2009 - 9:57am
Egads so many sad stories. What is you want? Do you want him to stop? Have you made it abundantly clear what the consequences are for continuing?
it's reaaly hard but do the 180 and get yourself prepared.S
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-09-2007
Sun, 04-05-2009 - 12:41pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-12-2005
Sun, 04-05-2009 - 3:49pm
I really think it's time to say goodbye. You dont need this. No one deserves that.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 04-07-2009 - 1:25pm

Your H has a problem and "just hoping things will get better" doesn't accomplish anything as you have sadly learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-26-2007
Fri, 04-10-2009 - 10:29am

I want to thank everyone for their replies ... I am still thinking thru what I am actually going to do.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-21-2008
Fri, 04-10-2009 - 9:45pm

ironically...just went through same thing... found conversations very much like yours.. was sick to my stomach.. although there have been his affairs in past....


when i confronted him.. he said the obvious.. "oh, i love you and what we have..." yada yada


giving it one more time... we watched the movie" fireproof"

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2009
Tue, 04-14-2009 - 1:59pm

Oh Joyless Angel - I am in the same spot you are.

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