When to put a stop to the cheating?
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|Fri, 09-09-2011 - 10:28am|
I know this is a personal decision and the answer is "whenever is right for you."
However... honestly, I feel like I should let him dig a deeper hole for some reason.
We have been married 3 years and have two children. Like everyone else, I thought he was different. He's not. With almost no effort at all, I have found evidence of at least a plan to physically cheat with someone he talks to through facebook. I am not sure, but I think it is an old classmate. Doesn't matter to me who it is.. all I know is they have sent photos of their private parts to each other and chatted about what they want to do to each other. That's enough for me.
I could probably actually start digging to find out how far it has gone etc.. but why? I don't want to live a life of suspicion and paranoia. I am able to just shut it all down in my head and heart and be done with the whole thing. I absolutely would be fine if it weren't for my babies who are 18 months and six months old. We chose to have the babies based on the fact that our love was so strong and it would be amazing to raise kids who actually had both parents in the house etc... la la la la la.. whatever.