why is it always the best friend?
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|Mon, 07-27-2009 - 6:21pm|
not that she was that good of a friend obviously, but still it's a double whammy :(
He's not in love with her, is relieved it's out (lasted about a month), we've been together for over six years, have a 3 yr old and a 20 month old, I'm letting him stay if he
a) never sees her again
b) quits drinking (which was their main thing in common as I don't drink
and c)let's me take over the finances (I'm just throwing that in there since it's been an issue lately)
Here's my question... am I nuts? Our family is very important to me and I don't hinge everything on sex, but I'm worried I'll never trust him again and don't know how that will play out. I THINK I can forgive him, but what if I can't?
I don't even know how I feel - just empty.