would you stay with a cheating H ?
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|Sat, 04-11-2009 - 8:43pm|
I found out 3 weeks ago that my H has been in a relationship with another woman.
H and I seperated when my son was just 1 month old.
I kicked him out of our house when I wasn't too sure of his commitment to me.
I spent the entire seperation pushing him away thinking it would make him fight harder to be with me.
He ended up getting his own apartment.
In October he posted pictures of him and another woman on his myspace. I've been asking him about this woman since then but he said they were friends - never kissed - she's never slept at his place.
I found out from the OW herself they were "together" since that weekend. Thats when they 1st had sex. Infact - they eventually even stopped using condoms.
Although I tried hardest to push DH away I was still sleeping with him too. I moved out of state and the weeks prior to my move DH was expressing wanting to move with my son and I and working on our marriage and having another baby.
I wanted to get back together, I do want to have another baby with my husband. I loved my husband so much.
But to find out he could live such a lie for 5 mos - a relationship with another W. He did with her what he does with me. And talked about me...."he said you didn't cook". He got her balloons on valentines day like he did for me. And SHE says he told her he loved her. He denies.
I was calling DH a lot lately back home and I am the one who brings it up. He's not crying his eyes out - doesn't seem like he is loosing sleep. I missed a week of work. He calls daily to talk to the baby, it hurts him that he is not with his baby. I've backed off on calling him and tonight he sends me a text about counseling to become a stronger family. I am so confused.
what I do know if I feel like I need to make love to someone else to figure this all out.