Would you want to know?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2010
Would you want to know?
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Mon, 05-24-2010 - 9:41pm
I was wondering if you had a dday and thought the A was over, would you want to know that it wasn't?
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-09-2010
Mon, 05-24-2010 - 10:53pm
gotta know - why live a lie? Would you willingly invite another person into your bed? Your M? Your life? Would you be fine w/ one of these set ups where Hs have multiple wives and go to each one, if you don't mind that than that might be the life for you - what about sex? What about STDs? what you don't know these days CAN kill you!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Mon, 05-24-2010 - 11:25pm
I think that seeing signs that the affair is continuing and not knowing for sure messes with your sanity, unless of course you want to stick your head in the sand and ignore what the signs and your intuition is telling you. So yes I would NEED to know that I am not imagining things AND no longer being made a fool of.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Tue, 05-25-2010 - 12:43am
Absolutely.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2009
Tue, 05-25-2010 - 10:13am
No question.

"If something cannot go on forever, it will stop."  Herb Stein

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2007
Tue, 05-25-2010 - 2:59pm

I was wondering if you had a dday and thought the A was over, would you want to know that it wasn't?


Not knowing means you have limited information about your own life.


Not knowing limits your abiltity to make an informed decision. Should not everyone be able to look at the facts and the reality of the situation and decide for themself if this is the life that they want

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Tue, 05-25-2010 - 3:37pm
Oh, so well put.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
Wed, 05-26-2010 - 4:40pm

Yes!