Wow - my head is spinning

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Registered: 01-26-2010
Wow - my head is spinning
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Tue, 01-26-2010 - 10:27pm

I just found out yesterday that my husband has been cruising the on-line personal ads and signed himself up to at least 5 Escort/dating websites.

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Registered: 01-07-2010
Tue, 01-26-2010 - 10:35pm

I kind of know where you're coming from:

I started really digging into my husband's email account after he confessed that he'd had a physical affair, and found that he'd been cruising the craigslist ads for years. He says he never met any of the women he emailed, that he was just looking for affirmation of his desirability, and I've decided to just take him at face value on this, as I had enough to deal with, coping with the revelation of his sexual affair in the last 2 months.

What I did, with his consent, was close his email account through which these searches and emails had been conducted. I don't know if you're able to do the same.

I don't know if my words have been of any help to you, but at least know: you're not alone here.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-26-2010
Tue, 01-26-2010 - 11:38pm

Yes, it does help to know I am not alone.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2010
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 12:03am

Hey there, I really know what you are feeling.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-26-2010
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 10:21am

Hi Ruby, than you for sharing. It is scary how many people have similar stories. What is going on with the world?

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Registered: 01-11-2010
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 11:10am

Hi mercury2010-


Like you, me and my H always agreed that we would end it if we ever even considered being with someone else.

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Registered: 01-28-2010
Thu, 01-28-2010 - 10:28am

Mercury2010,


Thank you for putting some of my feelings out in the open so I could identify them.


Let me note: we are not married, but were connected on a daily basis for over a year.