It's been 10 years since d-day & we've made it.
Honestly...I don't know if you ever truly get completely over "it".
Glad to hear you are making it, my question is how long were you apart before trying again?
We never formally separated~we stayed in the same house & tried to work it out a little at a time.
I am trying to rebuild my marriage after 38 years.
Trust takes along time rebuilding and it's a hard road coming back.
"It is much harder to stay and work it out than it is to leave".
I wasn't saying that you didn't have the same pain or issues and I'm sorry that I upset you.
Actually Jndavis, My life now is pretty good. My exh's betrayal is in my past.