10 Years Ago Today

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Registered: 10-12-2003
10 Years Ago Today
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Tue, 04-12-2011 - 3:59pm

It's been 10 years since d-day & we've made it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2008
Thu, 04-21-2011 - 12:07am

Actually Jndavis, My life now is pretty good. My exh's betrayal is in my past.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-12-2003
Wed, 04-20-2011 - 8:23pm

I wasn't saying that you didn't have the same pain or issues and I'm sorry that I upset you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2008
Mon, 04-18-2011 - 7:52am

"It is much harder to stay and work it out than it is to leave".

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-12-2003
Fri, 04-15-2011 - 4:58pm

Trust takes along time rebuilding and it's a hard road coming back.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2011
Thu, 04-14-2011 - 6:09pm

I am trying to rebuild my marriage after 38 years.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-12-2003
Thu, 04-14-2011 - 5:29pm

We never formally separated~we stayed in the same house & tried to work it out a little at a time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2011
Wed, 04-13-2011 - 7:36pm

Hi,

Glad to hear you are making it, my question is how long were you apart before trying again?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-12-2003
Tue, 04-12-2011 - 10:35pm

Honestly...I don't know if you ever truly get completely over "it".

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2008
Tue, 04-12-2011 - 9:46pm
Hi thanks for posting in. If I may ask...how long did it take for you to really be over the pain and "mind movies" . Was your DH affair a short fling or longer term? It's been 3 years for me and I still dwell often but then my DH caused more damage than the average WS :(