It's been 10 years since d-day & we've made it.
Actually Jndavis, My life now is pretty good. My exh's betrayal is in my past.
I wasn't saying that you didn't have the same pain or issues and I'm sorry that I upset you.
"It is much harder to stay and work it out than it is to leave".
Trust takes along time rebuilding and it's a hard road coming back.
I am trying to rebuild my marriage after 38 years.
We never formally separated~we stayed in the same house & tried to work it out a little at a time.
Glad to hear you are making it, my question is how long were you apart before trying again?
Honestly...I don't know if you ever truly get completely over "it".