1year1month from d-day

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Registered: 08-19-2008
1year1month from d-day
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Mon, 08-24-2009 - 12:15am

Hello all.

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me & hubby : 26 years old
married for 2.5 years, have a son 20 months old
d-day : August 06, 2008
rebuilding
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Registered: 01-07-2009
Wed, 08-26-2009 - 12:08am
People were asking about you here a while ago. I'm glad to hear from you! Thanks for posting.
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Registered: 09-12-2008
Wed, 08-26-2009 - 1:14am

Good grief woman!

You scared the bajezzzers out of me when you dropped off the planet. Peter and I posted looking for you on your d day. We share that day remember? I was sure you would have a look.

I'm sorry that things are going slowly for you. Remember that all the reports talk about two years. So chin up ok,

I hope you both are doing the work, I find reading with my spouse does wonders. We are trying to get through this book called "Mindful Loving." It has a christian undertone but the general information is fairly good. I just don't think Jesus is going to take away my problems for me. I know other's do and I'm not ditzing that in anyway. I just don't have that. But my spouse does and I'm just happy to tag along. Anything to get her to talk to me about our stuff.

My wife's latest thread is about standing up for herself. She feels that had she stood up to me early that she would not have found solace elsewhere. She's also seeing that when I contacted all the men, she recognized that nobody, including her, was standing up for me and that I was just doing it for myself. (Before, she was upset that I called or stood in front of all the men). She now commented on how her main OM is acting cowardly. (yeah, that didn't break my heart!) She said that we are now standing up for each other. That definitely makes me feel great.

Sweetie, I'm so relieved that you are ok. I hope you are doing the basics, eating right, exercise, taking care of yourself, working on your personal issues.

Thomas

5 kids ages 16-10, D Day: August, 2008

What I'm doing to rebuild: Therapy, Books, Exercise, Forgiveness.

Thomas

We have five kids. Our D-Day was in August, 2008.

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Registered: 08-19-2008
Wed, 08-26-2009 - 4:14am

Hi Georgannasx, thanks.

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me & hubby : 26 years old
married for 2.5 years, have a son 20 months old
d-day : August 06, 2008
rebuilding
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