On the 4th version of the "truth"

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Registered: 05-08-2009
On the 4th version of the "truth"
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Tue, 08-04-2009 - 10:36am

I'm not sure I feel like waiting to find out if there's going to be a 5th.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Tue, 08-04-2009 - 12:58pm
Sounds like this was a mid life crisis affair which is when men that were previously beyond reproach tend to go a bit crazy and do something like this for the first time. If you really feel that this was his first affair you may want to continue MC and try to save this. He seems to be truly remorseful now. Yes the lies hurt like hell but often times they do lie or not tell the extent of their involvement with OW to avoid hurting you any further then they already have, and also to save face with themselves and their families. The main thing is to insist that he has no contact with her AT ALL. He needs to know that if you even get a whiff of the OW and any contact between them that you will file for a divorce. With men it often times takes realizing what they are going to lose for them to really get it. Make sure he gets it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-18-2009
Tue, 08-04-2009 - 6:08pm

I am so sorry for what you are going through.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-08-2009
Thu, 08-06-2009 - 9:15am
Thank you for your encouraging words.