In bad shape

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2009
In bad shape
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Thu, 03-26-2009 - 9:21am

I am in very bad shape today, I can't stop crying.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-10-2009
In reply to: fr1end
Thu, 03-26-2009 - 9:37am
You really need to talk to someone! You need the support . You should share your anger w/your H because he did this to you. He needs to bear responsibility for your pain. I would be furious!! When I found out about my H's. 2nd affair, I let him have it! I wasn't afraid anymore.You will never heal unless you get all of this out in the open. Your H will never take responsibility unless you push him to it! Be strong!
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-10-2009
In reply to: fr1end
Sat, 03-28-2009 - 2:57pm

fr1end,

I have some advice for you. I know you mentioned that you can write. There is a site called www.ifreelance.com that matches up people who need freelance work in writing.Hope this helps.

lizzie

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Registered: 06-06-2007
In reply to: fr1end
Sat, 03-28-2009 - 7:05pm

i don't know when your dday was but IMHO, don't ever feel afraid to wake H up or tell him why your are upset.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-28-2009
In reply to: fr1end
Sat, 03-28-2009 - 10:41pm

I completely agree with the posters above.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2009
In reply to: fr1end
Wed, 04-01-2009 - 10:00pm

I am going thru some of the same feelings.