Cheap Thrills on Ebay

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Cheap Thrills on Ebay
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Mon, 06-22-2009 - 4:23pm

Here's one...my DH has gotten in trouble over the years for numerous things (including cheating), and one of those things was looking

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Tue, 06-23-2009 - 8:18am
Personally, I think there is much more to it than you know. Personally, I think there is more than just the ebay. I gain this insight from my own experience. These aren't little boys.
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Tue, 06-23-2009 - 12:14pm

oh i know there's more...i just haven't been able to get my hands on it yet, but i will. he's been caught with A LOT worse, so either he's gotten sneakier or i'm getting stupider. the main reason i posted it was because it was just so unfathomably STUPID that

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Tue, 06-23-2009 - 2:57pm
That's kindda the problem. After we confront something like what we have, we just don't
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Wed, 06-24-2009 - 11:38am

thanks, but actually, i don't have such a good attitude, because i keep it all to myself, which isn't good. it's like i have a

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Thu, 06-25-2009 - 8:30am

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Mon, 06-29-2009 - 10:38am

we haven't gone to counseling. i have a hefty copay (we are on separate insurances). he did end up going to see a counselor because i insisted after another lie unrelated to the cheating (secret child from his past - it never ends). i seriously doubt he was honest about anything, because he told me she said it was time for me to get over stuff, and i doubt a professional would have seen our history that way

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Mon, 06-29-2009 - 12:32pm
That sounds like a classic narsacist to me,
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Mon, 06-29-2009 - 2:35pm

thanks - i will look into the relationship saver