Coming home

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Registered: 02-10-2009
Coming home
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Tue, 03-31-2009 - 10:18pm

Well, I asked my H to come home at the end of the week. I just decided to take a leap of faith. I can see that he is starting to come out of his fog and is working in therapy(finally) and is telling me all sorts of details (w/out me asking) about the OW. For the 1st time a few days ago he told me that she contacted him so he came clean .I told him I'm still guarded, not ready to have sex w/him and that I'll rip his head off if he does this to me again.

I also told him he has to remain transparent. Neither of us wants to talk about this anymore (unless an important question or concern comes up). We know the reasons for the affair and he's developing coping skills to change his behavior so this doesn't happen again. We both want to move on.

Oh, and I told him he'd better treat me like a queen FOREVER!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
In reply to: lizzie2009
Thu, 04-02-2009 - 11:53pm

More power to you, sister!


Wishing you only the VERY best...


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
In reply to: lizzie2009
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 2:46am
Good for you!

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-09-2008
In reply to: lizzie2009
Sun, 04-05-2009 - 9:59am
can you teach me to rip off heads PLease?
S
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Registered: 02-10-2009
In reply to: lizzie2009
Sun, 04-05-2009 - 8:01pm
What a great post! A little humor is so great for healing! Thanks!