That was an amazing letter. I could have written it to my H's xow but I don't think she has any remorse for what she did. In fact, she got away with being a part of the worse pain I have ever felt in my life. My H has suffered through all of my emotions from craziness to anger and everything in between and he has done everything in his power to make it up to me. The OW just walked away scott free. Most OW even cry and whine about how they didn't "win" the MM after he dumps them when the W finds out. A woman who sleeps with a MM is the most selfish, self-centered, ugly human being on the planet; and our husbands are much better while they are messing around with these women. I can't believe how they whine about how much they are hurting. They put a loaded gun to their head shot it and then they cry about how bad it hurts. To me, when they whine about how much it hurts after they are dumped it is further insult. They selfishly want to break up another woman's M and then whine like a baby when their selfish plot doesn't work. I still hate the xow for her part in my pain and I am not sure that I wouldn't slap her face if I ever saw her again in person. She had the nerve to tell someone how bad she is hurting because my H treated her like garbage. HELLO, she is garbage and she put herself into a position to be used. My H never loved the xow either. He used her. Which is also sad because my H (minus the A) is a really good man who I didn't think was capable of what he did for eight months. Well, it was really four times in eight months that they actually saw each other which is even more ridiculous. I will never understand how a woman can do that to another woman. It's really sick if you think about it.
I didn't see your post when you placed it, but if you truly want to contact her, who knows, maybe it will help.