Dream interpretation... very interesting

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Dream interpretation... very interesting
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Wed, 04-05-2006 - 11:11am

Last night I had a dream that my husband died in a car wreck. I saw a picture of his tombstone online on a website, some sort of family website, a distant relative of his. There were purple flowers around it, and it was one of the tombstones that stays close to the ground. I didn't even go to the funeral or to the gravesite. In fact I heard about it, but it didn't hit me until the next day. I was upset, but not beside myself. I was numb thinking "my husband is dead." I even changed my msn name to "my husband is dead." I just thought he's gone. My husband is dead. What now? I went to visit his father only he lived somewhere different it was like a trailer with some makeshift canopy. He was kind of indifferent given the situation. I remember wondering if the other woman would be at the funeral. I didn't want her there. I thought about the funeral but didn't go apparently. I thought he's mine... even though they are together, he's still my husband, and so I get to grieve more. I was sad but also angry... like something was final. Something was done.


Now obviously I am mad at him, but I would never want anything to happen to him in a million years because I love him. So I was curious what this dream might mean... so I looked it up on www.dreammoods.com ....Here's what I found as far as the symbols go...


Death
To dream about the death of a loved one, suggests that you are lacking a certain aspect or quality that the loved one embodies. Ask yourself what makes this person special or what do you like about him. It is that very quality that you are lacking in your own relationship or circumstances. Alternatively, it indicates that whatever that person represents has no part in your own life.

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Wed, 04-05-2006 - 12:03pm

Wow is right!

Solazzo

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Sat, 04-29-2006 - 11:39am
You know, this is interesting...I brought it up to my husband through all of this mess too...I had two dreams that he was cheating on me...one of those where you wake up and want to hit him in the bed next to you, you know? Well, i also have this weird sort of sixth sense thing..call it hyper-intuition, whatever...but at any rate, when I dreamed those dreams was when he was unfaithful and I had no idea...conciously anyway...very weird...he knows the next time I dream one of those dreams, I'm going to castrate him with my cuticle nippers...
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Sat, 04-29-2006 - 7:36pm
Summer, that was incredible, could you post the web sites on dream interpretations? The night before my H told me about his affair I woke up in the middle of the night from a nighmare that I couldn't breath and that I asked him to help me. He wrapped his arms around me and started to squeeze me so that I couldn't breath. I was shaken from this dream and woke him up and told him about it. Little did I know that the next day he would actually suck the very life out of me when he told me he was in love with his secretary....when I do have certain disturbing dreams it's difficult to process them at times because I don't know if it's prophesy, my subconscious, or an over-active imagination. Fortunately, these type of dreams are seldom and most of what I dream can be related to what had transpired during the day. But your post was so fascenating, that I would like to learn more. Thank you
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Mon, 05-01-2006 - 12:12am
I usually use www.dreammoods.com for dream interpreation. There are sections talking about different aspects of dream interp, how to do it, etc. It's best to keep a journal by your bed and write things down when you first wake up so that you don't miss any details. But I usually
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