H has come out of the fog?

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Registered: 02-10-2009
H has come out of the fog?
Wed, 04-22-2009 - 5:20pm
My H said to me( and his therapist) that he now realizes that he could never have stayed with the OW and have been part of her family b/c her kids would see him as the person who caused their father to be kicked out.He would be hated by them and his life would be miserable. Although I was breaking out in hives at the very thought of him divorcing me to be w/this other woman and her family, I was relieved that he finally understands the absurdity of the affair.