H is having mood swings!??!??!?!?!?!
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|Fri, 01-27-2006 - 8:54pm|
Last Sunday my h was in a very bad mood. He was cold and distant. I have asked time and time again what is going on???
Then Monday he was great happy and up beat. That is until I made a pass at him and he turned me down saying he was too tired.
Tuesday he was OK not in a great mood but not a bad one either. Again I tried to make a small pass but he was too tired!!
Then Wednesday morning he wakes up and goes to the bathroom, when he comes back he say's how about a quick one before work.. Sorry for too much information I am just really confused and need some help... Anyway it was like I was not there at all. I mean no foreplay no kissing just wham bam..
Thursday he was again OK but distant. Not talking much just off in his own world type thing.. I went to snuggle and he would not move his arm to put around me until we went to go to sleep. Then he was all hands but again no kissing no connection.. I just told him I was too tired and went to sleep.
Then today he was in a great mood.. All over me and kissing me calling me every half hour telling me he loves me and so on. Came to my work and brought me coffee...
All I can get out of him is he has been feeling Blahhhh. I know he suffers from depression. The days have been dark and he hates grey days.. But since we have been rebuilding he has managed to help reassure me. Only this time he just really shut down??? I am left questioning what is going on?? Triggers and red flags are going off all over the place!! I don't know if I am over reacting? But all I want to do is withdraw. I feel like all the progress we have made in just one week has been taken away!! I feel stupid now for ordering our new rings and unsure if I am strong enough to deal with these moods?? I am again on the fence and feeling so insecure!! He won't talk and I feel rejected. He won't make love to me and I feel rejected.. Then I get angry because I feel he has no right to put me through these feelings. No matter what the reason is I should not have to feel this way EVER AGAIN!!! So what do I do? How do I get him to see what he is doing is killing me and driving me away? Thanks for listening? Any advise would be wonderful?