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|Thu, 04-30-2009 - 11:10am|
As, ive discussed in previous posts i am having a hard time with forgiving. i still feel anger & disgust over my husband's affair. he is doing everything right, no reason for me to think that he is cheating. i recently exploded on him with all my suppressed feelings, he did not take it well at first but at the end of the night he was being very loving towards me. i feel like i got the monkey off my back in telling him how hurt i still am and how his betrayal still haunts me. i dont want to sabotage our progress & i dont want to explode again, as i told him, i want to forgive him. he is doing everything right, yet still, i cant stop thinking about the things he did.
Any advice on how to heal, forgive, or at least how to deal with it so that it does not make matters worse? I dont want to keep pounding at our relationship, but i am still angry & resentful, despite his attempts to prove himself to me.