How to learn to love again
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|Wed, 04-08-2009 - 5:50pm|
If your spouse is doing everything he should to repair the damage, how do you learn to love again? I don't want to stay angry, I want to move past the anger. If I talk to my friend, she tells me how he'll never change and why would I let someone treat me like this? Of course I didn't even know! It's not so black and white. he's been faithful and a good H for 21 yrs. She tells me how damaged he is and makes my H sound like a lost cause. That he's only doing what he needs to,to take care of himself- not for me. She doesn't really know him, so how much should I believe what she says?
I'm keeping my eyes open to see if he continues to repair the damage he's done.