How long have you been together???

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
How long have you been together???
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Sun, 01-31-2010 - 5:27pm

Just out of curiosity and without re-reading all your old posts, who has been together a long time, medium time, short time, whatever?


I've known DH 40 years, we'll have our 40th anniversary in July if I haven't taken out a hit man on him by then, lol.

 

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Registered: 01-11-2010
Mon, 02-01-2010 - 2:41pm

myradorn - I know, it DOES smart.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2009
Mon, 02-01-2010 - 4:06pm

Hi myradorn,


Married 20 yrs, last summer, technically.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2008
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 1:07am

HI Ties, I hear you and feel the same way when someone asks how long married. It does feel like a lie now to state the actual length.

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Registered: 01-07-2010
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 9:25pm

Coming up on 8 years of marriage. His A started a little before Thanksgiving, ended mid December, while he was away for 3 months on business. D-day was the day he returned.

I'm thankful that:
*it wasn't a back-and-forth-between-us ordeal.
*the thought of leaving me and our boys didn't cross his mind.
*he never had an emotional attachment to the OW.
*he told me immediately upon his return and had the STD tests the day after that
*he wants to spend the rest of his life showing me that he loves me and never wants to go down that road again.
*our communication and sex-life is better now than it ever has been.

The blue skies are out there. I catch a glimpse of them every now and then.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2009
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 9:50pm

been together for almost 34, will be married 33 in March.

OH, IF YOU FIND A GOOD ONE (HIT MAN) write him a recommendation and send him my way, ha ha

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2010
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 10:18pm

Wow lots of long marriages on here.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 11:55pm

That anger is so tough to deal with, isn't it?

 

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Registered: 09-09-2008
Wed, 02-03-2010 - 12:01am
Another oldie.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Wed, 02-03-2010 - 12:02am
How are things now, 2 years after D-day, I assume?

 

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Registered: 09-09-2008
Wed, 02-03-2010 - 12:07am
Any time, any time.