I am SO DONE. $220 cell phone bill. GRRR
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|Thu, 04-20-2006 - 3:55pm|
That's it. I am so fricking done with my stupid H. I opened stbx's cell phone bill -- the one that he reactivated behind my back after giving me his other cell to keep in contact with the OW after D-Day 1 when he promised NC with OW. I got the bill today -- his mail is still coming to the house and so far I've been paying the bills with the money that he gives me. But his cell phone bill was $221 fricking dollars. Can you believe that? He sure as heck hasn't been talking to me... and he doesn't really have any friends. Even though that phone doesn't come with a detailed print out of calls -- which I could get if I called the company, I KNOW WHO HE WAS TALKING TO. But I don't even want to go there. I have some of the records from his other phone... and he called her 14 times in one day once. I know that we are separated but like my last post said he's been feeding me bull about wanting to make it work since I told him that I filed for divorce. The last three days I have tried to contact him about DD and money... he has not returned my calls. And I know that he has been working an insane amount of hours... in retail management and they opened a new store yesterday... but the idiot couldn't even call to check on our DD... but he could spend $220 worth of minutes on the OW?!!!! WTF EVER! UGGGGHHHH. He is supposed to get DD three days a week for three hours... this week he was just SO busy with work that he can only get her one day. That's crap. Way to be a father! And I shouldn't have done this, but I called his phone and left a message saying that I was fricking done with him and with this marriage and that I would fricken frick whoever I wanted from here on out... and that I would never be with him ever again. That is was crazy that he could spend that much money that we don't have to talk to OW... $220 worth of minutes and he couldn't even return my calls about our daughter. I told him to frick off and that I would see him in court. Very mature. I know... ughhh. We have no fault divorce in this state, and I never mentioned my name or his in the message... but it could proven that it was me. I'm hoping that it can't be used against me. If it could he's probably not smart enough to go there. Plus he doesn't have a lawyer as of yet nor can he afford one... but that doesn't mean taht won't happen. I don't know how it all works, but ti probably wasn't best to leave that message. Oh well! Anyway... I am just so done. His true colors keep on shining through, and the colors aren't very pretty. He can talk to OW that much but not make time for our DD... that is ridiculous. He's only taking our DD three hours for the week... ughhhh! Thanks for letting me vent.
Edited 4/20/2006 3:58 pm ET by baby_socks